Hi etidd. Thanks for the information.
One problem is that you have installed multiple software packages for your wireless adapter.
Your laptop could have been equipped with up to 3 different wireless adapters. You have software installed for two of the types (that you mentioned) but only one can be correct.
It is not all bad to to have the manufacturer provided tool manage your wireless network. It just means that you need to use that tool to connect to a wireless network. This has the added benefit that you will have on/off controls for your wireless adapter which may be disabled if you remove the wireless management tool. However, if your goal is to allow Windows XP to manage the wireless network then we need to remove that software and reconfigure windows to take over. I don't think this is a bad idea as long as you understand the possible drawback.
According to the response in your last message, this is what we need to do.
First, download the following file:
HP WLAN Driver
Second, go into add/remove programs and look for and remove any entries similar to the following: (You can wait to reboot until the final one is removed)
Intel PRO/Wireless (Not the WIRED one)
HP WLAN (Driver and Client if you find it)
Atheros (anything named Atheros)
Broadcom (anything named broadcom)
WLAN Utility
This should remove all products related to wireless. Your wireless adapter should not work at this point and will require that you load the new drivers. You can install the file that you downloaded previously to reinstall the wireless drivers. Now, your wireless should be listed OK in device manager, and there should be no third party utilities to control the wireless.
Now, if WIndows XP still does not allow you to manage the wireless network you will have to do one or both of two things (both of which have already been mentioned)
1) Enable the Wireless Zero Configuration service by click start -> run -> typing services.msc and pressing ENTER. Find Wireless Zero Configuration and make sure it is enabled and set to automatic. Start the service while you are there. If it fails to start, report back with the error. Sometimes the service needs to be reinstalled.
2) Now that the service is running, follow the instructions you used earlier in order to manage the properties of your wireless adapter and select the option to allow windows to manage the connection. (The same instructions you said you already did.)
This should allow WIndows to manage the wireless network and it should stay that way. Then, you can try to connect to your wireless network.